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Moving a Mile to Live Abroad

December 26, 2011

Our story of cross-cultural travel and seeing the world with new eyes.

This wasn’t the trip I expected.

I’d been talking for years about traveling the world, chirping in Ted’s ear about experiences in foreign cultures, fresh perspectives, and challenging the middle-class-American-outlook we unwittingly take for granted. (And of course I tried enticing him with prospects of exploring foreign markets’ colorful stalls and opportunities to sample Portland Food Cart fare in situ.)

Winter 2009: One of those What-If? pillow talk conversations. Normally, travel was my suggestion, but this time, it was Ted advocating for scenery change and promising new experiences. He painted a vivid picture of connecting with people willing to share their unique histories and and share their cultures and perspectives, and I agreed to the adventure.

Within five months of that exchange, we woke up in a new land. Continue Reading…

Guest Posts, Tidbits About Us

Captain & Clark Feature twoOregonians

December 14, 2011

Join us today for Wandering Wednesday at Captain & Clark: The Modern Cartographers.

We’re sharing stories from our World Cup 2010 trip to British Columbia and letting you in on a few favorite spots in Vancouver along Commercial Drive…We met world travelers Chris and Tawny through our first RTWdinnerparty, and we’re excited for their upcoming 2012 adventure: heading to Post Office Bay in the Galapagos Islands, retrieving letters from the wooden whiskey barrel mailbox, and hand delivering the contents to recipients around the globe.

Follow their travels at Captain & Clark and keep in touch on Twiter: @CaptainandClark.

Inspirations, Musings, Travel Plans

Free Travel Education + Inspiration

December 13, 2011

It’s really no secret that I’m a library junkie.

Benefit: this addiction comes in handy when saving money for travel.

The internet teems with free blog posts and paid-for subscriptions that, at the end of the day, leave me wishing for more depth and/or less fees.

So I instead turn to my local library and its ridiculously vast collection of paper-in-the-hands resources with tables-of-contents, indexes and glossaries, coffee table books with rich photos, DVDs featuring footage and histories of far off lands, and, yes, user-friendly how-to guides to accompany me on my let’s-make-friends mission with the camera.

And let us not forget the other beautiful thing about the library: free wi-fi sans coffee purchase. I’ve found this perfect perch, next to the spinning globe at my little Belmont Branch of the Multnomah County Library. While Ted has been finishing up his last few weeks of work and we’ve been commuting back into Portland from my family’s home in the country, I’ve been carpooling with him and finding digital work spaces to use during the day.

Must remember this library hack when we’re abroad. (Also, it turns out the National Library in Buenos Aires provides guided tours in Spanish and English. Who knew? Maybe I can score a card and stash it alongside the one I received at the Library of Congress in D.C.?)

If I seem a little over the top about libraries, it’s because I am. Continue Reading…

#indie30, Musings, Travel Plans

High Sights, Diligence, and Travel Goals

November 1, 2011

Thanks to Sean, Chris, Olivia, Jessica, and the rest of the wonderful crew over at BootsnAll for feeding travel dreams and equipping adventurers to live boldly. This month they’re at it again, inspiring travelers to reflect on experiences and memories during November’s 30 Days of Indie Travel. I look forward to posting from time to time and reading stories in the #indie30 stream.

The Question – Day 1: Goals

What were your travel goals last year? Did you accomplish them? What travel goals do you hope to accomplish this year?

Tools and inspiration: Learn more about setting a BHAG–a big, hairy, audacious goal. 

The Answer – In a Nutshell:

Travel Goals 2011: Save, Save, Save. (A continuation of travel-related goals from 2010, 2009, etc. — and yes, we’ve met the mark!)

Travel Goals 2012: Go, Go, Go. (Things are looking good: there’s a date on the calendar and we have tickets in hand to begin our Round the World Journey.)

The Musings – Since marrying, Ted and I have intentionally compiled a list of goals each year and agreed to aim toward them together, praying for wisdom and direction as we go.

I’m a firm believer in the power of putting goals in plain sight, whether writing a list and taping it to the mirror or covering a wall with images of inspiration. Day in and day out, seeing, reading, acknowledging the priorities we’ve said to ourselves we value – these practices have kept us on track to meet and pass milestones on the journey.

Our Wall of Dreams, Pinning Inspirations and Mapping Out Travel Calendars in Clear Sight

Too, it would only be fair to acknowledge our bigger ambitions in life. Beyond travel, beyond adventure, beyond possessions (or lack there of), we have a goal set before us as a couple of faith: to experience God’s love and truth in profound ways, and to reflect that beauty to the world.

12 I’m not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. 13 Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward-to Jesus. 14 I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back.

 15 So let’s keep focused on that goal, those of us who want everything God has for us. If any of you have something else in mind, something less than total commitment, God will clear your blurred vision-you’ll see it yet! 16 Now that we’re on the right track, let’s stay on it. -Philippians Chapter Three, The Message

Funny BootsnAll’s mention of BHAGs. This past year, I spent time reading or listening to audio recordings of recommended books on business and leadership; one in particular was James Collins’ Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap…and Others Don’t. Mr. Collins referenced his concept of BHAGs (Big, Hairy, Audacious Goals) several times throughout, and I so appreciated his acknowledgment of the effectiveness of setting overarching, unifying, unusually audacious goals.

Such bold visions rally troops in a company, band together family members, and motivate the individual to set high sights and apply diligence with every last ounce of strength.

There’s a favorite Dave Ramsey quote posted on a sticky note above my office at work:
“Diligence is discipline with excellence over an extended period of time.”

Another favorite of his: “The difference between a dream and a goal is a PLAN.”

As this year (and entire life season, really) of diligent, disciplined saving and planning draws to a close, I’m so grateful to report that we’ve met our 2011 goals, and as part of the “Go, go, go” of 2012, we hope to cross paths, enjoy company, and share stories with friends we’ve yet to meet but are sure to love.

Here’s to dreams.

And here’s to fruition of so many years’ worth of plans.

Cheers,
Bethany


Musings, Travel Plans

Throwing Antiques from Covered Wagons…

October 27, 2011

…and other lessons in abandoning material possessions to reach the trail’s end.

You’ve heard the stories (and perhaps played the computer game?): Wild-minded risk-takers threw caution to the wind, kissed their hometowns goodbye, buttoned up canvas awnings, and wobbled their wagon frames across the plains and prairies and mountain passes of rugged North America.

They’d heard of the Willamette Valley. A land of fertile soils and ripe possibilities. A new way of life for those who dared risk it all to reach the goal.

It’s true.

Oregon sang a siren’s song, and the adventurous were drawn to come.

What happened to the possessions unable to be jammed into tight corners of the settlers’ prairie schooners? Who gave them a new home? The in-laws? Dear friends? Neighbors remaining on the east coast?

How many valued pieces of sentiment and function remained in Missouri, I wonder? How many more soared over the side of wagons, perhaps accompanied by tears and sweat?

How did their meaning shift from top-priority-packables in a 4’x12′ bed to dead weight no longer carried by weary oxen?

I imagine a couple discussing the reasons for adding goods to the packing pile: “It’ll be useful for our new life at the end of the journey… We won’t be able to buy another one… It’ll be a reminder of our loved ones…”

But a thousand miles in, I imagine the conversation shifting to practicality in the face of survival. Health trumped comfort. Determination trumped desire. Reality trumped fantasy.

Now, a hundred and some odd years later, it’s our turn to grit our teeth, sort through artifacts of settled life, and part with all but the household basics and the dearly cherished. And I still suspect we’ll need to chuck a few more items over the edge when all is said and done…

If you find yourself in the area this weekend, come drink a celebratory mimosa and buy our stuff!

We’re clearing out our house before we pack up and leave to travel the world. Furniture, books, clothes, tools, odds and ends…everything* that doesn’t fit in a backpack!
(*not really everything. but sort of.)

Saturday, October 29th: 9am-noon

The Corner of East Burnside + 92nd Place:
9205 E. Burnside Street #201
Portland, OR 97216

Musings, Travel Plans

Home: Letting Go of Place and Things

October 9, 2011

Sunday night. Holed up at home. Desperately avoiding to-do lists.

Day 88 (but who’s counting?) until departure.

I visited a recommended link and landed in the middle of Cheri Lucas’ thoughts: “Roots vs. Wanderlust: On Home, Accumulation & What’s Missing.”

I’ve wrestled deeply with these themes during our season of preparation.

I’m a designer. A cook. A homemaker, too. In Jr. High, I purchased my own subscription to then-brand-new Home and Garden Television. When Cheri writes about the arrival of the CB2 catalog and visions of housewarming parties and guest bedrooms, I know instinctively what she means. That tug of the heart toward a cultivated place. A home that cannot simply spring up overnight, but rather grows slowly, evolving from time and attention, investment and use.

Even as we’ve steered away from mortgages in favor of ship cabins and known the decisions were right, I’ve still craved a back yard and soil of our own. An alternate reality. A life with “a place for everything and everything in it’s place” (as my grandma says).

But we’re saying goodbye to place and things. And I don’t know if or how to imagine resuming a physically rooted lifestyle on the other side of this experience.

And Cheri, too, acknowledges the connundrums.

When she reflects on memories and on picnics, alleys, and reading books aloud, savoring the slow pace of days abroad, I think about the plans we have for life on the road.

Especially lately, as we are parting with possessions and preparing for a nomadic year, I’m challenged to release my home-based rituals. It’s no secret among my friends that I’ve experienced a strange disequilibrium in the kitchen, watching the seasons change without preserving food for winter and letting empty mason jars leave my doors in the arms of new stewards.

Dwelling . . . inhabiting . . . settling: each so very good.

Wandering, exploring, waving goodbye: the cadence of story very different.

Our roots cannot be entwined in the things of life, but the connection to family and friends, the relationships longer lasting and more deeply meaningful than any accumulation of possessions or pinpointed place.

So home, as it seems, remains in our hearts.

It’s unforeseen how these mixed desires and decisions will meld into one, cohesive, future life. For now, I’m learning the value of the full heart and outstretched, empty hand: ready to give, and ready to receive.

Musings, RTWdinnerparty, Tidbits About Us

Traveling Couples’ {Digital} Dinner Party – October 2011

October 1, 2011

Welcome, friends, to our corner of the web!

On this, the first of October, we’re hosting our first digital dinner party as a way to extend hellos and exchange stories with fellow travelers we’ve met through Twitter. So, without further ado…

Friends, foods, and table talk from travels around the world.
(For visitors unfamiliar with the back story, see our #RTWdinnerparty page.)

{Meet and Mingle} So…we’re cheating! We’re supposed to introduce ourselves by name, but we have about a week left of going stealth since the travel-cat’s not quite out of the bag here at home. If anyone really wanted to figure out who we were, it’d be pretty easy…but we’ll keep the mystery going for kicks. (And as a way to honor the relationships we have with employers who don’t yet know we’re leaving town…)

We’re B&T:
Full names disclosed by this time next week! (Well, maybe not middle names, but you get the gist.)

We were both born and raised in Oregon’s beautiful Willamette Valley. My (B’s) great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-grandfather, Etienne Lucier, set out from Montreal, Canada in the early 1800s to explore the Pacific Northwest and make his living as a traveling fur-trapper (pre-dating the infamous Oregon Trail). He eventually settled in the French Prairie of the Northern Willamette Valley, married a native American woman, cleared land, planted crops, and in the history books became known as the “first farmer of Oregon.” Years later, I grew up on a farm in the country, not too many miles from his original homestead, and as an adult, now living in the city of Portland, I carry my love of family legacy and of the land into my work as a landscape architect.

T’s family came across the country from the Midwest, and he, too, grew up in the Willamette Valley surrounded by big-hearted communities living in small towns. He works in a job providing social services to homeless populations and is no stranger to uncovering people’s stories of life and heartbreak, hopes and dreams, struggles and breakthroughs.

Our roots at home run incredibly deep. As we set out to venture together beyond the bounds of Oregon territory, we’ll carry with us the pluck and spirit of our ancestors and the blessing and encouragement of many dear family and friends, and we’ll look forward to encountering the world and its people: landscapes, legacies, and all.

{Dinner Specialty}
We’re bringing the Main Course to this month’s Dinner Party, and If we could truly have you over for a feast, we would serve a repeat of our 2006 wedding meal: masterfully grilled Pacific Northwest Salmon and Prime Rib.

And, of course, if we could provide a venue, it’d be one of the most beautiful spots on earth: my {B’s} family’s home… Look! It’s even set up for us. (No, not really. Wedding pictures circa 2006 — but we could rig up something similar for you travel blogging friends. Maybe one giant rough-hewn wooden farmhouse set in the lawn, with white lights in the trees and seats around the fire pit and hours to pass the time telling stories…?)

And speaking of telling stories…

{Table Talk} Updates on our recent travel(planning) escapades:

The ever-ticking clock continues reminding us of the soon coming adventure and the frightful list of things to do before January 5th arrives.

We’ve been hard at work spending extra hours each day making dents in the per-departure to-do list (a list that partially includes the following: continue earning money for the savings account, pare-down-pare-down-pare-down, remain calm, finish up travel vaccines, book an apartment in Buenos Aires, finish overdue projects around the house, remain calm, revel in the excitement of seeing bank statements aligned with pie-in-the-sky goals scratched into 2007/8/9/10 notebooks, bring our plans to friends and family for wisdom and prayer, jump for joy when the countdown app finally revealed less than 100 days to launch, cherish time with our loved ones, remain calm, etc., etc., remain calm).

And then there are the ongoing reminders that keep us working together and working on our attitudes: Just tonight, we tried jamming an altogether-too-large desk into an altogether-too-small Camry in an effort to transport said piece of furniture to its appointed home at our friends’ place. No go. Turned and carried the whole thing back upstairs. Thwarted by an altogether/impossibly-too-small-car-door-frame. Bit my tongue. Chose to laugh. C’est la vie.

Not the first time, and certainly not the last that plans and logistics don’t quite shape up the way we’d imagined. But the experience is in the attitude.

We’re about to spend a great many more hours together, tackling challenges, reveling in adventures, eating good food, sending postcards home to dear hearts, and sharing our stories from the wide world of travel.

Wish us luck, and we’ll keep you posted from the road!

Thanks for reading, and thanks to our Twitter friends for taking part; it’s such a pleasure to meet our fellow travel comrades!

Cheers,
B&T

October 2011 #RTWdinnerparty link-up:
We’ll continue adding links below as additional #RTWdinnerparty posts are published.

@twoOregonians (Main Dish) Pacific Northwest Grilled Salmon
@GQtrippin (Vietnamese Feast) Roasted Suckling Pig, Peking Duck, BBQ Spare Ribs, and more!
@luggageinhand (Dessert) Bougatsa: Greek Pastry
@backpackforever
– (Side) Migas: Tex-Mex Specialty
@CaptainandClark – (Dessert) 호떡 (ho-dduk) and bungeobbang (붕어빵)
@twoyuppies – (Side + Beverages) Burgushi & Napa Valley Vodka

Interested in participating in the next link-up?
Head to the Traveling Couples’ {Digital} Dinner Party & @RTWdinnerparty on Twitter for details and updates.

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How We Got Here (And How We’ll Get There)

September 10, 2011

Someone once defined an adventure as “something about to happen.”

That phrase gives me goosebumps.

In 2003, a co-worker introduced me to RTW tickets. I was sold, hook, line, and sinker. At the time, I was preparing to move from Oregon to New Zealand for a semester abroad. The idea of circling the globe and visiting a beautiful string of countries revved my desires, and when I mentioned the notion to my boyfriend during a late night phone call, he heard the dreams in my voice and said, “Honey, someday, we’re gonna do it!”

In my naïveté and zeal, I didn’t quite realize that he was probably saying that to make his girlfriend happy and hedging his bets that I wouldn’t actually remember the conversation.

Au contraire, mon ami.

Thankfully, in the years since, we’ve grown to the share the dream together.

We’ve checked so many things off the to-do list since that night on the phone, with this plan of long term world travel hovering ahead us on the distant horizon:

– New Zealand study abroad (2004)
– Graduation (2006)
– Wedding (2006)
– Clearing all consumer debt (2007)
– Cash flowing the remainder of my husband’s university studies (through 2009)
– Acquiring professional licensure and gaining experience in our respective fields (through 2011)
– Building the savings account (currently)
– Visas, Travel Immunizations, Workaway contacts, apartment rentals (this whole past season)
– Preparing to set out on the journey (January 5, 2012 )

We’ve limited strings: No new debt. No mortgages. No car payments. No contracts (well, other than the cell phones…but they’re up before we leave).

A simple life at home helps prepare us for a simple life on the road.

Now beyond the early goals and milestones, we’re continuing to save cash as quickly and diligently as possible to fund the travel account. We easily reached the half-way savings mark in late 2010, but with the slowing economy challenging my earning potential, the year 2011 at times stretched painfully on…

Nevertheless, we’re sticking with a January departure. It’s time to get this show on the road!

Ultimately, the second half of our trip will be as full as the second half of our savings.

Which is all the more motivation to throw myself wholeheartedly into these final months of earning. With each new income-producing side gig I take on, my gratefulness deepens.

“The reward of a work is to have produced it; the reward of effort is to have
grown by it.” – Antonin Sertillanges


The Plan…for Now
:

Depart Portland, Oregon (11.11.11 oh, it sounded like fun….but 1.5.212 it is!)
Peru, Boliva, and Northern Chile (through January)
Patagonia (arrive on my birthday!)
Argentina (Valentine’s Day through mid March, renting an apartment as home base)
Transatlantic Cruise from Brazil to Spain (sixteen days March/April)
Spain (Easter weekend in Barcelona, a week with friends in Castellón, and Workaway exchanges along the south coast)
Morocco (we’ll hop off briefly in Casablanca on the cruise, but it would be lovely to return)
Lebanon (hoping to visit my college roommate in Beirut)
South Africa, Tanzania (hey, a sixth anniversary in Zanzibar would be fun!)
Sri Lanka (no sense putting too many dates at this point…)
Thailand, Laos, Indonesia (approximations and impressions; plans to come later)
Australia (just a wee stop ~ enough to say hello to a wonderful friend)
New Zealand (for as long as possible…)
Return to Portland, Oregon (12.12.12 who really knows?*)

Hopes & Purposes (aside from the pure joy of a wanderlust life…):
-Observe and participate in the stories of social services in developing countries
-Investigate geographical and cultural food systems
-Go to the source of commonly imported staples (i.e., coffee, bananas, avocados in S. America; cinnamon and nutmeg in the Spice Islands; tea in Sri Lanka) to see first hand the mix of questionable and sustainable/ethical agricultural operations
-Engage with religious traditions and faith communities outside North America and celebrate diversity in the body of Christ
-And of course, the real cherry on top of this whole grand scheme: a long-awaited Return to New Zealand to visit friends and introduce my better-half to my favorite country in the world.

In the Meantime
As these last few months to departure fall from the calendar, the dreams will continue…
I’ll keep applying myself to the tasks at hand…
I’ll keep appreciating the things in life that will be missed once we’re on the road…
I’ll keep enjoying camaraderie and stories from fellow travelers:

Kim and Brian, Fellow Portlanders at So Many Places, sharing on their diligence in becoming Debt Free (Almost).

Gus and Claudette of Luggage in Hand, celebrating their Four Month Travel Anniversary.

Reva sharing at Here’s to Italy about her adventures in Spain and Morocco in between WWOOFing stints in Italy and France.

Kat at Pierced Hearts and True Love visiting Buenos Aires ahead of us and now preparing to move to the Southern Hemisphere.

Tavel’s excursion to Dolores, Aregentina

Kirsten’s iPhonography Adventures

It’s a gift to be able to dream so big, to be surrounded by supportive friends and family, and to prepare to set off on this adventure, together…

Watch this space.        

Something’s about to happen.

Destinations, Inspirations, South America

It’s a Small World Afterall: Walt and El Grupo in South America

August 17, 2011

A true kid of the Americas, I grew up with Disney influences woven through my imagination.

In fact, now that I think about it, “It’s A Small World” was indeed my very first RTW trip.
(Thank you, mom and dad, for taking a three year old on such a grand adventure!)

Quick to write off most newer Disney features in adulthood, I found a surprise treat for my grown up tastes in the form of a random Netflix moment. We were searching for South America documentaries and inspirations and stumbled across Walt and El Grupo.


The fascinating 2008 documentary follows the politically motivated 1941 Goodwill Tour made by Walt and a number of company associates and artists. The film features interesting observations about the relationship of art and politics as well as beautiful glimpses into the cityscapes and social scenes of 1940s Argentina, Brazil, and Chile and their surrounds.

My great grandmother, an artist in her own right, trained with the Disney Studios back in her day… There is a charm and flavor to the old sketches and cartoons, a human touch that seems missing from mainstream modern entertainment.

The beauty of the documentary is the blending of old video, photos and sketches (including footage from Walt’s own 16mm camera) along with modern day glimpses of the region.


Ethnic caricatures and political messages provide food for thought, as do the tales of group travel and outings and business meetings and of long, handwritten letters home before the time of digital updates and instant communication.

I’m spending time this week sorting out our Brazilian visas and Servas applications, glad for the fanciful glimpse of the South American past.

Our own mini-goodwill tour is unaffiliated with film studios or departments of homeland security and (thankfully!) quite without political motivation, but I’m anticipating an equally beautiful season of touring the regions, connecting with people and place, growing from the encounters, and eventually returning home with inspirations from art and culture woven through my imagination for the rest of life…